how is your life right now? what are your goals? do you have lasting regrets? sorry so many questions! I find what you say really refreshing and helpful in a strange way :') x
hey, sorry to have taken so long to respond to this! i’m getting quite a few asks like this at the moment and although i love asks and it’s so nice that y’all wanna get to know me, my life is a bit messy and difficult and unplanned right now and thinking about it too much is quite stressful for me especially because i struggle with anxiety.
anyway, i’m glad that my ramblings help or interest you! that’s awesome to hear. so yeah i’ll say briefly that currently i’m leaving my job at the pub and trying to find something better, preferably in london as i’d love to live there - it’s a great city, lots of my friends live there and it’d be easier to see my boyfriend.
goals wise, i just want to have a job that makes me happy and helps others in some way, and i’d like to have some things to feel proud of.
i don’t really regret many things actually. i just don’t think regret is a very helpful or useful emotion. it’s cliché maybe but i find it better just to think about what past situations or dilemmas have taught me. i maybe slightly regret letting my depression get the better of me so much during school as my life would be a lot easier now if i had better grades and qualifications but i don’t think i could have helped that much really.
Do you fall in love easily/quickly??
i wouldn’t say easily. that makes it sound like it could be anyone. but quickly? yeah i guess so. if it’s the right person. like, if you know, you know.